To xxx

dear xxx,

i am here just to tell you that, choose your friend wisely.
a friend today might not be the friend tommorrow.

she might be nice to you today, but for me, i can see the motive behind when she did sth.

i think i have done anything i need to do.
if you think that she really worth you sacrifising, just go ahead. anyway, its non of my buisness.

you know that i am so straight forward and blunt, i am lazy to hide the true me behind.
i won't change myself just to get into their group.

but you r nt me..........................

yours sincerely,
yyy

Stand with my own view? EASY TO SAY, HARD TO DO!

I dunno why, i always feel that, the decision that every1 made is nt always right.

I often have my own opinion, usually different from people.

I hate Survival. coz "the tribe speaks"
I hate Devil's Kitchen, coz ur team voted.

The 1 that is being eliminated, is always the strongest among them.
can u see how jealousy works?

i hate this, why can't the smartest win? the 1 that always win, will be the moderate 1, coz the most stupid will be eliminate first(coz thay need to win in a team.) then the smart 1.

i hate this, why must we follow the undercover rules in this society?
why must there people that like to gossip, and still dare to say, "if u didn't do, Y u scared we say"?
Why we must behave like people expected?
Why we are devided in to class and levels?
Why those are not good enough, always choose those who are very good, but the Excellent 1 doesn't even have a choice?
Why we must respect those who are older than you but cannot gain your respect?
why those immoral actions that is practice always will become legal?
Why a person doesn't scared a person with moral and facts, but a person with money and power?
WHY! WHY! WHY!

Since when boys are always better than girls?

I thought, people in olden days think that boys are better and is a leader just because they are stronger.
did you ever heard a guy being raped by woman?

I have a teacher, he always say and highlight that guys are much more better that girls.
he says, "boys can score better without revising". Duh...... i assume i am much more better than most boys i know. may be my circle of friend is not big enough... haha.

take it as a small sample test, my sample speaks.
if guys are always better than girls, why the top 3 in my class are girls?

"boys don't have to do notes, they can copy from the girl classmate" well, does this means that boys depends on girls? lol

"boys are better when they come to form6 and uni" well, i am very sure they are, coz,only those that sre better can enter, doesn't it?

"boys are always better. boys are always.......better" every time he will highlight like that!!!!!!! so................ you also ask me when you cannot get the answer mah! o... you say boys are better, but u no longer boy mah....

ya, the story is, he said he only read the notes his wife copied in university. and he still can score better than his wife. so what! that is ur wife and u. not other people. but are you sure u can do that well if you didn't copy her notes!

sa zhu era is over!!!!!!!!!!

want to know why most influencial people are not woman.
a few reasons:
-man are more fierce and more strength to bully woman long time ago, so some women feel scared in the deep in their heart without knowing why.
-most women are not interested in this wu liao job
-women are too good, so they know shu da zhao feng, so, let the men to take the risk.

well, i only subjected this to those sha zhu i know. most of the guys i knnow are still very sweet and nice.... haha. luckily.....

为什么一定要小数服从多数？

世上那一件事不是这样的？

为什么一定要瘦才好看？
为什么跟不上潮流的就是老土？
为什么字就要照顺序写？就不能用自己的符号吗？
为什么有钱有势的就叫成功？

最不忿的是，为什么在少数人做出对的选择时，还必须被另外大多数的人欺压、帮他们收烂摊子、甚至为那些人牺牲?

大众做的选择一定对吗？
小众的声音注定要被埋没吗？

或许只有当小众的声音变成大众的焦点时，才会被注意到吧......

Respect

How to gain respect from people?

earn it, not force toget it.

get a profession that might get respect, do not really make people respect you.

if you are a doctor, and you do sth wrong to your patient.
another doctor discovered your mistake, and ask the patient to recomfirm sth with you.
if you juz said, don't try to find fault in my clinic, respect me as a doctor harshly to your patient until your co workers can hear.

ha! respect! will just appear in your dream. i really doubt hw profesional are you!

I am nt the kind of people that can really act that i am so polite to any1.

for me, i don't like other people to beat around the bush when talking anything. i don't use flowery words to cover what am i going to tell.
therefore, i will juz express my word straight away.
however, the phrase that says treat other people like what you want other people to treat you really cannot be accepted in my life.
its that i am too odd ot too unique.

whatever, juz forgive. although polite people won't say other people impollite.

i will try my best to forgive, but i need time.

i never have things to make me sad for such a long time. even a very very good news cannot cheer me up. juz for that accusement

踏脚石、绊脚石

什么是踏脚石？
就是帮你比较容易达成目标的人、事、物。

什么是绊脚石？
就是让你不能或很难达成目标的人、事、物。

我弟弟今天实在太有智慧了，说了一句“踏脚石摆得不好就变成绊脚石了”，这么有哲学的话。

的确，每件事都有正反两面。物极必反。只不过这句话有点悲观。
何不换成“绊脚石说不定会变成踏脚石”

你怎么看呢？

旧闻:EARTH HOUR 60

你有关灯吗?
你有关灯吗?
你有关灯吗?
你有关灯吗?

没有!

你不是很提倡环保吗? 怎么不关?

拜托! 我有必要跟风,在每个人关时,我也关啊?
那只不过是要让每个人知道, 你环保!!!!!

最呕的是,竟然有人说:"我关了灯之后,就数数看到底有谁没有关"

你!$%^&(8&%$##$@@@!@!

我当天是没有在那段指定的时间关灯, 那有怎样?
我每天都把不必要的电源关了! 你有做到吗?

尤其是那些每天浪费电源的,竟敢说这种话!!!!!
你跟放火烧自家屋子, 然后送一杯水来, 再看看谁没来帮你救火一样嘛!确可恶的, 还到处说那谁谁谁没来帮你!

你一定要在很多人把水帮你熄灭火,你才会去拿一杯水来吗?

不放火不就行了?

蜜蜂與蒼蠅

有一篇網路文章講到一個實驗，如果將一隻蜜蜂和一隻蒼蠅放進一個玻璃瓶中，然後將玻璃瓶平放，瓶底朝向較光的窗口，再打開瓶蓋，你猜會怎樣？



何者會逃出生天？實驗證明，勤勞的蜜蜂會不斷地在瓶底找出口，直至力竭而死；

而蒼蠅卻可以在不到兩分鐘的時間內，從玻璃瓶口逃出。



蜜蜂之死，是因為被傳統智慧和邏輯所誤。牠們以為，「密室」的出口必然是在光線最明亮的地方，因此只管拚命撞向瓶底，重複這種牠們認為合乎邏輯的行動。對牠們來說，自然界並無玻璃這種不能穿透的透明物體，因此牠們的智力愈高，愈重視邏輯和經驗，這種奇怪的障礙物就愈發不可理解。



相反，智力較低的蒼蠅對邏輯毫不在意，只管四下亂飛，卻誤打誤撞地找到了出口，構成了一個智者低、頭腦簡單者卻得救的警世故事。



這不單是一個寓言，而是美國一個著名的組織行為學者卡爾偉克的實驗。

面對複雜的世界，我們需要的是隨機性的智慧，而不是教條式的智慧。因此，學習用不同的角度看世界，來因應這些千變萬化的世事，似乎是有智慧的人生有的涵養。

我懦弱

你要做自己！
我知道，我也想！可是，那有这么容易啊？
我要是真的都把心底话，在想说时就说出口，我想，恨我的人应该会比现在还多吧！

做你想做的，不是被规定必须做的。
生在这个世俗的世界，就被规定要做世俗的事、世俗的判断，怎由得你想做就做啊？
今天我觉得很热又很郁闷，我就当街脱衣服、大声地把我心中的闷气喊出来！你说你最后会在哪里再见到我？？是监狱还是精神病院？
我不想做功课，但是我老师要我交上。我能不做吗？
我被要求写一篇散文，我不太想些，我想画图。然后把图画交上给他，行吗？
我明明就恨死他，恨不得一刀捅死他。我就把刀捅过去哦？我最后还不是跟他笑了笑，当着我没有这个念头。

如果你现在觉得我很虚伪，你别接着念了。我和你不同卦的。

当你用你的尺来量别人，你是否也用这一把尺来量你自己？
而你的尺又和别人的想不相同？
我诚实过了头，不想当世俗人，却不能不配合着世俗的世界。配合了，心里又不舒服，特来抒发。

我特欣赏那些用勇气来反传统的人，因为我没有。虽然心有不忿，就没那个胆说出来。
我特看贬那些敢说敢做不敢当的人，所以我尽量避免。虽然有时人算不如天算，但是难免会觉得遗憾。

我一般不会做第一人，我不知道在前面等着我的是什么。我不喜欢这种不踏实感。所以，我多数的事情都先RE 过。

还有，我最讨厌凡事想自以为是、自以为自己是完美的化身、自以为自己在伸张公义、凡事想插上一脚的，使得我眼睛和胃都抽经了。因为白眼翻得太厉害、呕得太久。

七尺高男----7 feet tall man?

华文小说里，尤其是古代或武侠小说，很喜欢用七尺高男来形容风度翩翩的好看男人。

可是，七尺有一点太夸张了吧！

原来，此尺非彼feet. hahahaha....

中国的一尺，只有十寸。所以，七尺就只有70寸。

70 inches= 5 feet 10 inches= 177cm

也还好嘛！我很多男性朋友都和那差不多嘛！
CHEH!

SAND

Most of the things in the world is just like sand.
The harder you try to grab it, the faster it flows aways from your hand.

在世上，很多事情就像沙一样。
你抓的越紧，它流的越快。

I want to marry a BO guy.

What is BO?
Its blood group la.
cause i am AO ma, if my children's father has a BO blood gp.
I am most likely to have all blood gps between my kids: AB, A, B, and O.....
hahaha.

but where got people want to marry just to produce a family with different blood gp le.
and different blood gp means it is harder to to look for similar "parts" when u need, including bone marrow, pancrease, and others le.

Once again, i end with HAih!